Thursday, January 22, 2009

Many Changes

This adoption is definitely a PROCESS. We are going through many changes in our lives right now. But, the biggest change is that we've decided to change the children's names, and have finally decided on names that we feel fit them. William's name is going to be Brigham Paul and Angelina's name is going to Rebekah Marie. We felt that changing their names to something we liked would help us lay claim to these children as our own. Today we began using their new names, but still intermittently using their old ones especially when they were unsure who we were talking about. While playing we used their new names, but when trying to get their attention we used both their old and new together. I hope this isn't too confusing for them, but we think they're young enough to adjust quickly. So, our three children are:

Brigham Paul
Rebekah Marie

Hyrum Christopher(sorry it's blurry the camera was on a weird setting)

Another big change is that two of our rooms have been altered into toddler/baby rooms.

Rebekah's room

The Boy's room-
Hyrum's bed

Brigham's bed

Well, life is interesting over here at our home, but we're sure happy and the children are adjusting well. Brigham and Rebekah's foster mom left them here for 3 hours today, and they were fine. Rebekah was tired and she had a hard time going to sleep, but I just rocked her while she screamed and she finally gave out. Brigham got a really worried look on his face when we were sitting down to snack and talking about our new family and new names, but it only took a minute before he was eating and ready to play again. I think the children know that a big change is happening in their lives, but their not sure what. We're just trying to make them feel as loved and at home as possible. But, that feeling that these children are our and are filling our hearts has been more present today. We are so grateful for the love of our Father in Heaven who has seen fit to bless this couple with three beautiful children.


3 comments:

  1. I have been wondering about the name thing. I think it's neat that you are changing them to something you like and it's great that they are little enough for that to even be a possibility. I've been trying to imagine what it's like to take a child who's a stranger into your home and to get to the point where you really love him and feel like he's your own. Then I realized that even when I've had my own babies I didn't love them and feel close to them right away either. It's definitely a process to get to that point where you really feel love and a connection with them. At least it is for me! What a challenge for you, especially with kids who have been stuck in that middle stage of foster care for a little while.
    Their rooms look really great!

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  2. Congratulations!!! They really are beautiful children! Heavenly Father works amazing miracles, doesn't he? I look forward to more posts on how your beautiful family is doing! Good luck with the whole process! And hopefully you won't have to wait too long to get your baby boy home!

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  3. Woo, adoption is a PROCESS....but oh so worth it, as I know you are experiencing in bits and peices! You're home looks wonderful....and yes, that family is beautiful!!!!!

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